Quotation by

Hermann Hesse

It is not our purpose to become each other it is to recognize each other, to learn to see the other and honor him for what he is.

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The quote means that in relationships, we should not try to change ourselves to be like the other person, but instead focus on truly understanding who they are. It emphasizes valuing and respecting the unique qualities of others rather than losing our own identity.

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